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Give yourself permission to write the worst stuff in the world

18/7/2018

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Allowing yourself time and permission to write, and acknowledging that it takes courage to do so, is something we'll talk about in my 'Feel the fear' Workshop on 4 August. 

In her fabulous book 'Writing Down the Bones' Natalie Goldberg says,
Sit down with the least expectation of yourself; say, "I am free to write the worst junk in the world." ... If every time you sat down, you expected something great, writing would always be a great disappointment. Plus that expectation would also keep you from writing.

It took me a long time to understand this, years in fact.  I could see no point in sitting down to write if: A. I was not going to produce something worthy of an award and
B. what I wrote would not be published.

I was also waiting for someone to say to me, 'You are A Writer! I give you permission to go forth and write!'

Those things didn't happen back then so, needless to say, I produced very little and was always disappointed. I beat myself up about what I believed to be a lack of talent and my inability to produce anything of note, and so eventually, I gave up and wrote nothing for about five years. 

Phew. Thank heavens I got over that crap. In a way, I had to, because I was going ever-so-majorly-mad. I needed to write and create. I wasn't allowing myself to write and that wasn't good for me.

I was not giving myself permission. 

I knew I could write but I didn't think it was worth it.  It seemed fanciful, impractical, a waste of time because it would not earn me money. Besides, I didn't want to be alone at home, in my bathrobe and slippers, scribbling away in a notebook when everyone else was out doing stuff and having fun. Not that the cat was bad company, it's just that the writing life made me feel out of step with everyone and everything, and that was more important to me for a very long time.

Hmmm .... 

Cue the crisis. It was bound to come, It was inevitable.

The advice I give to writers in my workshops is:  'Allow yourself to write and give yourself permission to write the worst rubbish in the world.'

And only you can do that. As author Dani Shapiro says, If you’re waiting for the green light, the go ahead, the reassuring wand to tap your shoulder and anoint you as a writer, you’d better pull out your thermos and folding chair because you’re going to be waiting for a good long while.
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